Showing posts with label Relationships. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Relationships. Show all posts

Friday, December 2, 2011

English: me and my friend
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As we grow up, we learn that even the one person that wasn't supposed to ever let us down, probably will. You'll have your heart broken and you'll break others' hearts. You'll fight with your best friend or maybe even fall in love with them, and you'll cry because time is flying by. 
So take too many pictures, laugh too much, forgive freely, and love like you've never been hurt. Life comes with noguarantees, no time outs, no second chances. you just have to live life to the fullest, tell someone what they mean to you and tell someone off, speak out, dance in the pouring rain, hold someone's hand, comfort a friend, fall asleep watching the sun come up, stay up late, be a flirt, and smile until your face hurts. 
Don't be afraid to take chances or fall in love and most of all, live in the moment because every second you spend angry or upset is a second of happiness you can never get back. - Unknown
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Tuesday, November 22, 2011

Forgiving Spouse !!!

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Shared by one of my dear friend via email … it touched me … so now it’s for you to look at …

A boy was born to a couple after eleven years of marriage. They were a loving couple and the boy was the apple of their eyes. When the boy was around two years old, one morning the husband saw a medicine bottle open. He was late for work so he asked the wife to cap the bottle and keep it in the cupboard. The mother, preoccupied in the kitchen, totally forgot ...the matter. The boy saw the bottle and playfully went to the bottle and, fascinated with its color, drank it all. It happened to be a poisonous medicine meant for adults in small dosages. When the child collapsed, the mother hurried him to the hospital, where he died.

The mother was stunned. She was terrified how to face her husband. When the distraught father came to the hospital and saw the dead child, he looked at his wife and uttered just four words. What do you think were the four words? The husband just said "I Love You Darling". The husband's totally unexpected reaction is proactive behavior. The child is dead. He can never be brought back to life but there is no point in finding fault with the mother. Besides, if only he have taken time to keep the bottle away, this will not have happened. No point in attaching blame. She had also lost her only child. What she needed at that moment was consolation and sympathy from the husband. That is what he gave her.


Sometimes we spend time asking who is responsible or who to blame, whether in a relationship, in a job or with the people we know. We miss out some warmth in human relationship in giving each other support. After all, shouldn't forgiving someone we love be the easiest thing in the world to do? Treasure what you have. Don't multiply pain, anguish and suffering by holding on to forgiveness. If everyone can look at life with this kind of perspective, there would be much fewer problems in the world. Take off all your envies, jealousies, and unwillingness to forgive, selfishness, and fears and you will find things are actually not as difficult as you think.

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Tuesday, June 7, 2011

How long do you worry about your kids???

Is there an imaginary cutoff period when
offspring become accountable
for their own actions?

Is there some wonderful moment when
parents can become
detached spectators in
the lives of their children and shrug,
'It's Their life,' and feel nothing?


When I was in my twenties,
I stood in a hospital corridor
waiting for doctors to put a few stitches
in my daughter's head and I asked,
'When do you stop worrying?'
The nurse said,
'When they get out of the accident stage..'
My Parents just smiled faintly
and said nothing.


When I was in my thirties,
I sat on a little chair in a classroom
and heard how one of my children
talked incessantly, disrupted the class,
and was headed for a career making license plates.
As if to read my mind, a teacher said,
'Don't worry, they all go through this stage
and then you can sit back,
relax and enjoy them.'
My Parents just smiled
faintly
and said nothing.


When I was in my forties,
I spent a lifetime waiting
for the phone to ring,
the cars to come home,
the front door to open.
A friend said,
'They're trying to find themselves.
'Don't worry!
In a few years, they'll be adults.
'They'll be off on their own
they'll be out of
your hair'
My Parents just smiled faintly
And said nothing.



By the time I was 50,
I was sick & tired of being vulnerable.
I was still worrying over my children,
but there was a new wrinkle..
Even though they were on their own
I continued to anguish over their failures,
be tormented by their frustrations and
absorbed in their disappointments..
and there was nothing I could do about it.
My Parents just smiled faintly
and said nothing.



My friends said that
when my kids got married
I could stop worrying
and lead my own life.
I wanted to believe that,
but I was haunted by my parent's warm smiles
and their occasional,
'You look pale. Are you all right' ?
'Call me the minute you get home'.
Are you depressed about something?'


My friends said that
when I became a grandparent
that I would get to enjoy
the happy little voices yelling
Grandma! Papa!
But now I find that I worry
just as much about the little kids
as the big ones.
How can anyone cope
with all this
Worry?



Can it be that parents are sentenced
to a lifetime of worry?
Is concern for one another
handed down like a torch
to blaze the trail of human frailties
and the fears of the unknown?
Is concern a curse or is it
a virtue that elevates us
to the highest form of earthly creation?


Recently, one of my own children
became quite irritable,
saying to me,
'Where were you?
I've been calling for 3 days,
and no one answered
I was worried.'
I smiled a warm smile.
The torch has been passed.

Friday, March 25, 2011


Friendship love and truthImage via Wikipedia











Friendship is like open heart (consciousness).
Friendship is like pure smile.
Friendship is like best teaching for social life.
Friendship is good goal for change character on the better.
Friendship is part teaching of love.
Friendship is last relation with all, without realization this nobody
can't go deeper in Our Source.

Friendship is truly or real only when soul involved heart
(conciousness) in relationship or heartily thinking.
Much better, deeper, truthfully and powerful is thinking without thoughts!
Friendship must be before many thoughts!
Friendship is always real when truth is greater (then friendship) and
when is goal friendship.

May God Bless Your Soul
Mahapratibhawan



source here
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Friday, October 30, 2009

Divorce! A Wonderful Story

Monica married Hitesh this day. At the end of the wedding party, Monica's mother gave her a newly opened bank saving passbook.

With Rs.1000 deposit amount.

Mother: 'Monica, take this passbook. Keep it as a record of your marriage life. When there's something happy and memorable happened in your new life, put some money in. Write down what it's about next to the line.

The more memorable the event is, the more money you can put in. I've done the first one for you today. Do the others with Hitesh.When you look back after years, you can know how much happiness you've had.'

Monica shared this with Hitesh when getting home. They both thought it was a great idea and were anxious to know when the second deposit can be made.

This was what they did after certain time:

- 7 Feb: Rs.100, first birthday celebration for Hitesh
after marriage
                     
- 1 Mar: Rs.300, salary raise for Monica

- 20 Mar: Rs.200, vacation trip to Bali

- 15 Apr: Rs.2000, Monica got pregnant

- 1 Jun: Rs.1000, Hitesh got promoted

..... and so on..

However, after years, they started fighting and arguing for trivial things.They didn't talk much. They regretted that they had married the most nasty people in the world.... no more love...Kind of typical nowadays, huh?

One day Monica talked to her Mother:

'Mom, we can't stand it anymore. We agree to divorce. I can't imagine how
I decided to marry this guy!!!'

Mother: 'Sure, girl, that's no big deal. Just do whatever you want if you really can't stand it. But before that, do one thing first. Remember the saving passbook I gave you on your wedding day? Take out all money and spend it first. You shouldn't keep any record of such a poor marriage.'

Monica thought it was true. So she went to the bank, waiting at the queue and planning to cancel the account.

While she was waiting, she took a look at the passbook record. She looked and looked, and looked. Then the memory of all the previous joy and happiness just came up her mind. Her eyes were then filled with tears.

She left and went home.

When she was home, she handed the passbook to Hitesh, asked him to spend the money before getting divorce.

The next day, Hitesh gave the passbook back to Monica. She found a new deposit of Rs.5000. And a line next to the record:
'This is the day I notice how much I've loved you thru out all these years. How
much happiness you've brought me
.'

They hugged and cried, putting the passbook back to the safe.

Do you know how much money they had saved when they retired? I did not ask.I believe the money did not matter any more after they had gone thru all the good years in their life.
                     
"When you fall, in any way,

Don't see the place where you fell, Instead see the
place from where you slipped.
                        
Life is about correcting mistakes."
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Wednesday, June 24, 2009

Why do we shout in Anger?

A saint asked his disciples, 'Why do we shout in anger? Why do people shout at each other when they are upset?'

Disciples thought for a while, one of them said, 'Because we lose our calm, we shout for that.'

'But, why to shout when the other person is just next to you?' asked the saint. 'Isn't it possible to speak to him or her with a soft voice? Why do you shout at a person when you're angry?'

Disciples gave some other answers but none satisfied the saint.

Finally he explained, 'When two people are angry at each other, their hearts distance a lot. To cover that distance they must shout to be able to hear each other. The angrier they are, the stronger they will have to shout to hear each other through that great distance.'

Then the saint asked, 'What happens when two people fall in love? They don't shout at each other but talk softly, why? Because their hearts are very close. The distance between them is very small...'

The saint continued, 'When they love each other even more, what happens? They do not speak, only whisper and they get even closer to each other in their love. Finally they even need not whisper, they only look at each other and that's all. That is how close two people are when they love each other.'

MORAL: When you argue do not let your hearts get distant, do not say words that distance each other more, else there will come a day when the distance is so great that you will not find the path to return.
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Thursday, May 21, 2009

What's Love got to do with it?

Endless loveImage by millzero.com via Flickr
When the world fails, and you know it will fail,
what way of life shall you live then?

When the governments collapse, and you know they will,
What power shall you rely on then?

When the dream of man reveals it's nightmare, and you already see that,
what dream shall you create then?

When the powers of earth lose control, and you know they are grasping,
what force shall you trust in then?

When someone comes forth to bring a new order, and you know it isn't your belief,
what faith shall you follow then?

When every man for himself will no longer put food in your children's belly,
and you see that time approaching,
What shall you do to nourish your Family then?

Inside us all, are there clues to our joint fundamentals.

Many of us are seekers of Good will.
Many of us are givers of Good will.

Only the principles that live on forever shall be reliable forever.
Only that which was before the beginning, and that which shall be after the end,
can a solid house be built upon.

Before Technology,
Before Science,
Before Society,
Before Governments,
Before Countries,
Before Armies,
Before Religions,
Before Tribes,
Before Culture,
Before Art.
Before Knowledge.

Before them all, and after them all will be the everlasting truth of Love.

Our culture todays treats Love as though it is a mushy, squishy, vain, lifeless, weak, foo-foo, feminine, girly-man idea only. Even now my own friends are looking upon my writing as though I have somehow gotten softer over the years. With my own ears have I heard them speak how they cannot even look upon my words because they are too wimpy for them.

Yet all the while, the very originator of love itself, is also the very originator of masculinity itself. Yet all the while the most powerful force in all the universe, responsible for the universe itself, proves continually that Love itself is the ONLY foundational principle of the universe that has been and always shall be.

Only the strong survives, all else, that is truly weak and truly despot fails.

Societies Fail,
Ideas Fail,
Governments Fail,
Man's Laws Fail,
Armies Fail,
Countries Fail,
Will fails,
The strong become weak and die,
The powerful become powerless and crumble.

Even a flower... can destroy the strongest man with an allergy.

Yet who has been destroyed by Love?

If there is a devil, then no doubt that force of vanity surly would put fear of love into the minds of men. No doubt that force of illogic would force upon another the idea of love as the weakness, rather then death as the weakness. No doubt Men and women would live within a time when love would be considered futile, unobtainable, indescribable, confusing, reckless, hurtful, and ultimately in vain. No doubt a pervasive and cunning idea would want men to become speakers of love, praising love, who actually know nothing about love at all! It works out well for death... that the only protagonists of love appear to be weak, unintelligent simple minded dolts living in a fairy-tale of unrealistic ideals. Yet love still is the only surviving force encompasing the universe as a whole. As every religion has thankfully not forgotten... it is truly the ONLY law there is.

Love itself removes the need for any other law.

No doubt if there is an untruth, devil, death, illogic, un-knowledge, force of ill-will in the universe... then that force would desire that we no longer remember what love actually is.

We try as we will to remember.

We write songs, poems, notes, letters, books, and create groups to recall actual love.
We seek, explore, discover, long for, ask for, desire, wish and hope for love.
We give, create, build, mold, shape, and try to grow love in another.

We do all we can continually for the sake of love.

Yet still do we seem to believe in love as vanity.

I believe our fundamental problem with love is that we see it from only one side at a time.
Either we are trying to give love, or we are trying to get love.

Love itself is a two way street.

They say that Love can change the world. And this is TRUE... but only if that love is received.

They say that all you need is Love, and this is TRUE... but you will not have it if it is not given.

How many of us have tried to GIVE love to a mate, a brother, a friend... who refused it?

How many of us have tried to GET love from another who would not give it?

It has been said that it is better to give, then to receive. This idea has long been mistaken for value of one over the other. It is not a lesson that receiving is wrong or somehow less valuable. It is a lesson which reminds us that through Giving, we also do receive, if our giving was done so purely for the intent to give... and not for the intent to purchase love or kindness from another. If I expect a certain response from you, then I am in effect doing a business transaction, rather then an act of love. If I desire that you should respond to my gift in a certain manner... then I am treating you as a whore, and wish to buy your affection.

IF however, i see in my own life how much I love it when someone scratches my back... and I go to scratch theirs because they itch... then I have given to another the very thing that I myself LOVE! In passing that on... I also give it to myself. BUT, if I have an expectation that YOU must respond a certain way... then I cut myself off from receiving my own love, in favor of receiving yours. Then my gift comes with a price that YOU must pay. Then my gift comes with an obligation on YOUR part... that YOU must conform to.

That isn't love.

Love must be received. It can however be received by the giver, to the giver.
If it is also received by the one who you have given it too... then the rewards are quadrupled.

Because in giving, you receive when done so with love.
And when received by another, they too understand and know your reception of self also.
You receive twice, and they receive twice... PLUS the gift given.

But if you demand they receive so that you can feel love, then you may or may not receive your own love back... AND you and them will only feel the effect of a good business deal.

You won't feel the effect of love.

I would venture to say, that any man who has lived a life where they give with any expectation of how it is received... has not ever known the effect of love. I would be bold enough to say they have only known the effect of purchasing a toy. Toys themselves will also fail, and are discarded. But actual LOVE never does.

One very large problem I have witnessed in my brothers, is that they lack the desire to receive love. Of course they would, when the love they have known has come with a Price! Would wants to be a prostitute? Who wants to be the family wallet? Who wants to have a HONEY-DO list? Who wants to be the arms and legs and labor worker of a family for payment of possible affection? I know of no one who desires this. I know of many who live this way. Men and women who give with expectation... BOTH create and support the culture of purchasing effecting at a price. Unfortunately for us all... that business deal is ALWAYS in negotiation and none of it has any security to it.

To give real Love is also to receive real love from within.
To receive real love is also to Give real love to ones self and to the giver.

Love given to one who refuses, does nothing for the receiver.
Love not given to one who is seeking, does nothing for the seeker.

We cannot force love upon another. The very principle of love forbids that possibility. Love must be received freely, and given freely... because Love is the foundation of Freedom.

The very best we can hope for, is to create love, and have that love received not only by us alone, but also by all. I am so blessed, to have a wife who receives love and gives love freely without desire for record keeping or score taking. It seems my life's work in myself is to wipe-out all those old ideas that Love is outside of me and something I must be worthy of.

We cannot use our will to master love, for love is the master of our Will, and not the other way around. Love is OUR teacher, and we are not the teachers of Love. Love is OUR ruler and commander, and we are not the rulers and commanders of love. Love is the gift of the Universe itself.

Love is the Universe itself.

by Ryan Ranney

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Sunday, May 10, 2009

RESPECTFUL . . .

R - respectful, responsible, reassure
E - educate, encourage, evolve
S - sincere, sympathetic, support
P - praise, practice, patience
E - encouragement, enjoyment, enthusiasm
C - communicate, cuddle, compliment
T - truth, trust, tenderness
F - faithfulness, fulfillment, fun
U - understand, unite, uplift
L - listen, learn, love, laugh


by Muriel Harrison
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Saturday, April 18, 2009

Love Quotes

  • If the people in the world knew only one religion - LOVE - the world would be paradise. ~ Osho
  • In dreams and in love there are no impossibilities.~Janos Arany
  • True love begins when nothing is looked for in return~Antoine de Saint-Exupéry
  • Love makes you feel needed, and to be needed is the greatest need. Nothing else can fulfill that great need. ~Osho
  • We can only learn to love by loving~Iris Murdoch
  • Love is the triumph of imagination over intelligence.~Henry Louis Mencken
  • Love is not a matter of counting the years... But making the years count.~Michelle St. Amand
  • True love comes quietly, without banners or flashing lights. If youhear bells, get your ears checked.~Erich Segal
  • Doing what you love is the cornerstone of having abundance in your life.~Wayne Dyer
  • There is only one happiness in life: to love and be loved.~George Sand
  • Love is a choice you make from moment to moment.~Barbara de Angelis
  • I love to see a young girl go out & grab the world by the lapels. Life's a bitch. You've got to out & kick ass.~Maya Angelou
  • Love is the condition in which the happiness of another person is essential to your own.~Robert Heinlein
  • Love floods us with hope.~Jareb Teague
  • Love is the master key that opens the gates of happiness.~Oliver Wendell Holmes
  • Love is being stupid together.~Paul Valery
  • At the center of non-violence stands the principle of love.~Martin Luther King
  • Love makes your soul crawl out from its hiding place.~Zora Neale Hurston
  • Love grows by giving. The love we give away is the only love we keep. The only way to retain love is to give it away.~Elbert Hubbard
  • Love is always open arms. If you close your arms about love you will find that you are left holding only yourself.~Leo Buscaglia
  • Hate leaves ugly scars, love leaves beautiful ones~Mignon McLaughlin
  • What the world really needs is more love and less paper work.~Pearl Bailey
  • True love stories never have endings ~Richard Bach
  • Love is the poetry of the senses.~Honoré de Balzac
  • Love is the magician that pulls man out of his own hat.~Ben Hecht
  • Love is the condition in which the happiness of another person is essential to your own. ~Robert Heinlein
  • Life is the flower for which love is the honey ~ Victor Hugo
  • Love me and the world is mine.~David Reed
  • Love is a game that two can play and both win.~Eva Gabor
  • Love is the delusion that one woman differs from another.~Henry Louis Mencken
  • Love is the silent saying and saying of a single name~Mignon McLaughlin
  • Love recognizes no barriers. It jumps hurdles, leaps fences, penetrates walls to arrive at it destination full of hope.~Maya Angelou
  • Love is like a virus. It can happen to anybody at any time.~Maya Angelou
  • One word frees us of all the weight and pain in life.That word is Love. ~Sophocles
  • You can give without loving, but you cannot love without giving.~Ami Carmichael
  • A man falls in love through his eyes, a woman through her ears~Woodrow Wyatt
  • Lovers who love truly do not write down their happiness~Anatole France
  • I have found the paradox that if I love until it hurts, then there is no hurt, but only more love.~Mother Teresa
    Love is therapy & there is no other therapy in the world except love. It is always love that heals, because love makes you whole. ~Osho
  • Love is but the discovery of ourselves in others, and the delight in the recognition ~Alexander Smith
  • Love cures people - both the ones who give it and the ones who receive it.~Karl Menninger
  • You call it madness, but I call it love.~Don Byas
  • Love can make you do things that you never thought possible.~Phil Collins
  • Love is a choice you make from moment to moment. ~Barbara de Angelis
  • There is always some madness in love. But there is also always some reason in madness. ~Friedrich Nietzsche
  • Love looks not with the eyes, but with the mind;And therefore is winged Cupid painted blind. ~William Shakespeare
  • The most important thing a father can do for his children is to love their mother. ~Theodore M. Hesburgh
  • Where we love is home, home that our feet may leave, but not our hearts~Oliver Wendell Holmes
  • We are shaped and fashioned by what we love.~Johann Wolfgang von Goethe
  • "However rare true love may be, it is less so than true friendship." ~La Rochefoucauld
  • "Friends show their love in times of trouble..." ~Euripides
  • "There is nothing worth the wear of winning, but laughter and the love of friends." ~Hillaire Belloc
  • "Friendship is love without his wings" ~Byron
  • "If you judge people, you have no time to love them." ~Mother Teresa
  • Music is love in search of a word. ~Sidney Lanier
  • Love is how you share your feeling to another & forgive with your heart and mind ~ Liza
  • Love cannot exist in peace, it will always come accompanied by agonies, ecstasies, intense joys and profound sadnesses.~Paulo Coelho
  • There is not enough love and goodness in the world for us to be permitted to give any of it away to imaginary things. ~Friedrich Nietzsche
  • "Love me or hate me, but spare me your indifference" - Libbie Fudim
  • "Animals are reliable, many full of love, true in their affections, predictable in their actions, grateful and loyal." - Alfred A. Montapert
  • "The story of life is quicker then the blink of an eye, the story of love is hello, goodbye." - Jimi Hendrix
  • "Men say they love independence in a woman, but they don't waste a second demolishing it brick by brick."~Candice Bergen
    A woman has got to love a bad man once or twice in her life, to be thankful for a good one. --Marjorie Kinnan Rawlings
  • Don't frown because you never know who is falling in love with your smile. SinVyeSt Tan
  • "Life is not about waiting for the storms to pass...it's about learning to dance in the rain!"~ Unknown
  • "To give and not expect anything in return that is what lies at the heart of love" - Rupert Everett
  • Love is a canvas furnished by nature and embroidered by imagination. - Francois Marie Arouet (Voltaire)
  • “The good life is one inspired by love and guided by knowledge." ~Bertrand Russell
  • Don't aim for success if you want it; just do what you love and believe in, and it will come naturally.~David Frost
  • "When we are being compassionate, we consider another's circumstance with love rather than judgement. ...
  • Those who love deeply never grow old; they may die of old age, but they die young.~Sir Arthur Pinero
  • "True life lies in laughter, love and work."~ Elbert Hubbard
  • Age does not protect you from love, but love to some extent protects you from age.~Jeanne Moreau
  • The moment we set off in search of love, it sets off in search of us. And saves us.~Paulo Coelho
  • Love gives us the strength to perform impossible tasks.~Paulo Coelho
  • "Anything a man does can bring him closer to the Supreme Wisdom, as long as he works with Love in his heart." ~ Paulo Coelho
  • It is unnecessary to talk about Love, because love has its own voice and can speak for itself.~Paulo Coelho
  • The moment we set off in search of love, it sets off in search of us. And saves us.~Paulo Coelho
  • “Laugh as much as you breathe and love as long as you live.” ~Unknown
  • "Love is an irresistible desire to be desired irresistibly." ~Robert Frost


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Thursday, April 9, 2009

Relationship Skills

  • "Only when you are in deep intimate relationship with life, does life open its heart to you. In that very opening one comes to know what truth is." ~ Osho
  • Each relationship contributes something to your inner enrichment. The more you spread into people, the more you expand. You have a bigger soul." ~ Osho
A strong, healthy relationship is one in which the partners show respect and kindness toward each other. The relationship forms a rewarding and enduring bond of trust n support.


Relax
If you are comfortable with others, they will feel comfortable around you. If you appear nervous, others will sense it and may withdraw. If you are meeting with someone first time, cheer up as if you've rediscovered a long-lost friend.
A smile will always be the most powerful builder of rapport. Communicating




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Saturday, February 14, 2009

My Commitment

I promise to TRUST you enough to tell you the Truth
and be true to you. I commit to always be sweetness
in your life, to nurture you daily and treat you
LOVlNGLY, Gently and with Respect
in my thoughts, words and actions,
whether in your presence or not.
In every interaction I commit to affection for you,
to look for and acknowledge the highest and best
in you and surrender to LOVE, our true nature.
My connection to my Source, my relationship
with you and our Serenity will always be
more important than any issue.
I open my heart to embrace you in my Love,
I open my heart to be embraced in your Love.
If anything unlike LOVE comes up, I will hold us
in my heart and listen as I learn to speak, experience
and be RESPONSE-ABLE for my own realities.
I am here for and with you. I promise to keep
communication open and keep LOVE conscious,
active and present AS WE HEAL,
CELEBRATE LIFE and GROW TOGETHER!

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Friday, February 6, 2009

The heart never lies; the mind never tells the truth

The friendship with a master is no ordinary friendship. It has a reverence in it, love in it, devotion in it, tremendous gratitude in it.

It is a multidimensional phenomenon.

The ordinary friendship is a worldly thing, mundane. The spiritual friendship is not of this world, it belongs to the beyond.

The understanding of the mind has no significance. In the world of spirituality it is only the heart that has to be listened to and followed. Your heart is giving you the answer. I am simply repeating it so that it becomes clear to you.

The heart never lies; the mind never tells the truth. The mind is a great speaker; the heart is very silent but it also expresses itself in tears.

The friendship with the master includes everything that is beautiful in all other relationships, and it excludes everything that is ugly in all our human relationships. It is the pure essence, the very fragrance of all our human relationships. It includes everything, but only the best part of it, the very cream of it.

Rejoice that it is happening to you and that your heart is strong enough not to let the mind decide. Your heart is strong enough to be the master and let the mind be simply a servant.

Osho
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Thursday, February 5, 2009

How to Manage Anger?

Anger is a poison. It may hurt the others, it may not - it depends on the other - but it is going to hurt you certainly. ~ Osho
  • Count from 50 backwards to shift activity from emotional part to analytical part of brain.
  • Laugh often, laughter is the best medicine.
  • Watch movies, telly shows that tickles you.
  • Forgive the person.
  • Relax, think of an event, place, time, activity that you enjoy.
  • Do not conclude, listen to others.
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Saturday, November 1, 2008

Anger

How I feel about that...Image by scriptingnews via FlickrAnger is a completely normal, usually healthy, negative human emotion. Why do we have it? I think it is because we want to Control situations of the past which we can't and to Control people's behaviour, the way we want them to behave them.

While thinking over it I found that it is due to image in our mind set which triggers Anger when ever it differs from our set image of situation or person which we have created for the person/ situation and that may be totally different.

I think we can win over this emotion by removing our expectations from people / situation. It's really easier said then done. But, I believe, we can start experimenting by making a declaration of having a day of no expectations with hubby, co-workers, kids, traffic, pollution, fund managers, bankers or even systems.

Are you ready to play the game? An invitation to share your views and experiences along with your thoughts on Anger.
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Tuesday, September 30, 2008

I love you!

I love you! The most wonderful, uplifting phrase in all the world. It does not matter what language you say it in, it always has the same effect. So, how often do you say it? Do you say it enough to those in your life that matter? Could you say it to a complete stranger?

I tell my wife, child and family members that I can that I love them. We close all our conversations with "Love ya, bye!". I even tell my dog, cats and garden plants that I love them. But I am like a majority of people out there who probably would not and could not tell someone I do not know that I love them. I mean the animals and plants will not try to have me arrested or give me weird looks. OK, so the cats give me weird looks all the time but they are cats, they just do that.

So, how can I say "I love you" without actually saying it. Actually, there are numerous ways I can do this and I will share a few of them with you.

1. I can just smile at people. A smile can say "I love you". It has at least a similar effect as uttering that wonderful phrase. When you smile at someone, you are letting them know that you care. And if they smile back then you have connected on the soul level.

2. I can just think "I love you". Sure, our thoughts are creative. That energy is released into the Universe and does have a positive affect, so why not walk around and think "I love you" about everything, especially yourself. It is the energy that is most important here so release your "love" energy for all the world to feel. Quite frankly we do not tell ourselves enough that we love who we are. Like I have always said it all begins with us, so go ahead, tell yourself that you love yourself.

3. I can give a gift to someone, donate to charity or volunteer for a worthy cause. All of these actions say "I love you" and just like thinking it, you spread the energy.

4. I can just look into someones eyes and with a look of love, I can connect and share the "love" energy, so words are not really even necessary. Did you ever do that? Just look deep into someones eyes and connect with their very soul. Wow, that is always a powerful moment.

5. I can write a poem, song or letter in which I express my love for someone, something or even the entire world.

6. Finally, I can just be loving towards myself and others. I can give a compliment, open a door, help someone load groceries in their car. I can get a massage, meditate, take a walk or eat my favorite desert.

There are as many ways that you and I can spread love either by actually saying "I love you" or doing and thinking loving things. The possibilities are as endless as the Universe.

So, let's all go out there and spread love in every way we can. I know it will have an immediate impact on you and the world.

I leave you today with this quote:

"Don't spend your precious time asking 'Why isn't the world a better place?' It will only be time wasted. The question to ask is 'How can I make it better?' To that there is an answer." - Leo F. Buscaglia

I LOVE YOU!
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Harry Shade
An author, inspirational speaker, trainer and coach. Lives in Columbus, OH. He is a graduate of The Ohio State University and a life member of the The Ohio State University Alumni Club. He has studied spiritual things for the past 35 years and own his own business, Rare Sense Unlimited where he help people along their spiritual path and with their life goals. He lives life to the fullest each and every day and approach life with a never ending optimism. His main goal is to help at least one million along their spiritual path and to find their life's path. My first book, Rare Sense: One day It Will Be Common; A Practical Guide to a Fulfilled and Balanced Life is available through Trafford Publishing, www.trafford.com/07-1266. You can learn more about him and the services he provide @ www.raresenseunlimited.com.

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Sunday, September 14, 2008

Prayer for Forgiveness. . .

#1 - Living, loving Spirit, let me practice forgiveness today by starting with the little hurts. I will let go of all the everyday occurrences that do not go the way I want, and the moment I begin to feel the familiar feeling of anger or resentment, I will practice forgiveness by invoking your loving and peaceful Presence and allowing divine grace to surround me. And so it is.

#2 - Living, loving Presence, I enter this moment of silence and consciously make the decision to unburden and detach myself from the painful memories of the past. I release to you everything that holds me back from my spiritual journey. I feel your power working in and through me in forgiving and letting go all that needs to be forgiven and released. And so it is.

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